You’re Engaged!
Riley and Kamran Engaged in Chapel Hill, North Carolina
How to Start Planning Your Wedding
Congratulations on your engagement! This is an exciting time filled with love, joy, and anticipation for the future. But once the initial excitement settles, you might find yourself wondering, "What do we do next?" Planning a wedding can seem overwhelming, but with a step-by-step approach, you can turn it into a fun and memorable experience. Here’s how to get started on planning your dream wedding.
1. Celebrate Your Engagement
Before diving into wedding planning, take a moment to celebrate your engagement. Whether it’s a quiet dinner for two or a big party with family and friends, savor this special time. You might even want to schedule an engagement photo session to capture the joy of this milestone.
2. Set a Budget
Setting a budget is one of the most crucial steps in wedding planning. Sit down with your partner and discuss how much you’re willing to spend. Consider all aspects of the wedding, including venue, catering, attire, photography, and entertainment. It’s important to prioritize what matters most to you both.
3. Draft a Guest List
Your guest list will greatly influence your wedding budget and venue options. Start by listing everyone you want to invite, including family, friends, and coworkers. Then, decide on the final number based on your budget. Remember, a smaller guest list can allow for a more intimate and personalized celebration.
4. Choose a Wedding Date
Choosing a wedding date is a big decision. Consider the season, availability of your desired venue, and any important dates for you and your partner. It’s a good idea to have a few potential dates in mind before booking your venue to ensure you have some flexibility.
5. Select a Venue
Your wedding venue sets the tone for your entire celebration. Whether you dream of a rustic barn, an elegant ballroom, or a beachside ceremony, finding the perfect venue is key. Visit potential venues, ask about availability, and read reviews from other couples to ensure it aligns with your vision.
6. Book Your Key Vendors Early
Once you’ve secured your venue, it’s time to book key vendors such as a wedding photographer, caterer, and florist. These professionals often get booked up quickly, especially during peak wedding season. Research and meet with potential vendors to ensure they understand your vision.
7. Create a Wedding Website
A wedding website is a great way to keep your guests informed and excited about your big day. Include details about the schedule, venue, accommodation options, and your registry. You can also use it to share your love story and engagement photos.
8. Start Shopping for Attire
Shopping for your wedding attire is an exciting part of the planning process. Begin your search early to allow time for fittings and alterations. Whether you’re looking for a traditional gown, a modern suit, or something more unique, finding the perfect outfit will make you feel amazing on your big day.
9. Send Save-the-Dates
Once you’ve finalized your guest list and venue, it’s time to send out save-the-date cards. This is especially important if you’re planning a destination wedding or if your date falls during a busy season. Save-the-dates give your guests plenty of time to make travel arrangements and mark their
10. Enjoy the Planning Process
Finally, remember to enjoy the wedding planning process. It’s easy to get caught up in the details, but don’t forget that this is a celebration of your love and commitment. Take breaks when needed, and don’t be afraid to ask for help from family, friends, or a wedding planner.
Rachel + Eric in Charlotte, North Carolina
